***Unfortunately our 9th step devotion was never posted so here it is***
Recovery Christian Center Daily Meditation 4/11/12 - Step 9 - Time to Reconcile
"So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and
you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, leave your
sacrifice there at the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then
come and offer your sacrifice to God. When you are on the way to court
with your adversary, settle your differences quickly. Otherwise, your
accuser may hand you over to the judge, who will hand you over to an
officer, and you will be thrown into prison. And if that happens, you
surely won’t be free again until you have paid the last penny." Matthew
5:23-26 NLT
Step 9: We made direct amends to such people whenever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
This step is the culmination of dealing with the wreckage of our past.
Having dealt with and allowed God to deal with why we caused the harm so
we will be less likely to do it again, and having allowed God to
cultivate His character in us, it is now time to attempt to reconcile
with those we hurt. Even though we might have some fear about going to
those we hurt, we must put that aside so that we can finally be free.
Now granted some folks may not accept the amends and we have to be
alright with that because God will acknowledge our effort. We also need
to understand that we don't just apologize we make amends. This means
if I stole your TV, I need to replace your TV. If I took money I need to
pay it back.
We also need to understand that these steps are
in order for a reason. If we have thoroughly worked the previous eight
step, by the time we get to this step our lives will show evidence that
we are no longer who we used to be. If we had tried this immediately
after we got saved and our recovery began, we probably wouldn't have
been taken seriously, but now after some time clean and walking with
Christ we are very different and even the people who we hurt can see the
love of God coming off of us. God can work wonderful healing in their
hurt and pain if we stay humble and willing.
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